A little backstory on this one. I was listening to Rebel Force Radio (best podcast ever) and Jason (host) at one point said something that really struck me: “Are the adult collectors the reason why kids don’t play with toys anymore? They see us Dads keeping our toys inside boxes and glass cabinets and so they don’t feel that they can play with toys? Are we the problem?”
This really stayed with me. I was always wondering why my kids never cared to play with toys as much as I did when I was younger. I was all about the action figures and Legos.
I sometimes wondered if it was because they have TOO many toys and it’s just overwhelming. That’s not entirely our fault as parents, it’s just part of the ‘hand me down’ generation we live in where other parents pawn off their toys onto other parents. It’s a good problem to have!
Anyhow, Sunday morning arrives and I’m editing some home movies and the kids come running into the office arguing about something. It was something that I figured was not worth arguing about but instead of getting into the details I deflected completely and said “Hey, you know those Thundercats up on the shelf? Do you want to open a couple?”
Their eyes opened wide and they were ecstatic! I swear this was bigger than Christmas.
Out came a few Thundercats…I helped open them for them as I’ve seen how much they tear open boxes and I can’t handle it as a collector. But there they were, having the time of their life with these figures…throwing them against the wall, figuring out which figure should be a villain and which should be a hero, grabbing a He-Man figure and throwing it into the mix…it doesn’t matter when you’re playing with action figures…it’s all about the action!
After an hour, the typical things happened. Somehow we lost the head of one of the action figures (still can’t figure out how that happened), there are accessories all over the place, the figures have hit the wall and ceiling a few times…but it was the best Sunday morning I could ask for as a Dad. I feel my love of collecting is winding down, or at least shifting to the point where I don’t really care about the condition of my stuff…I want my kids to develop their own love for things and if it happens to be the same thing I love in life, bonus for me.